ever wondered why marriage is costly? or pricey?
just thinking out loud.. .
Marriage will not be that pricey if not for a purpose.. . ^^
Just my thoughts.. .
First, only established people could afford it.. .haha! Since it costs a lot.. . people who are in the "stable" stage (with a stable job) could pass through it.. .
Secondly, determined people could pass through it.. . ^^, If you're determined to meet your partner at the altar, you won't settle for second best.. . you will give him/her the best.. . and do your best for you to be stable so you could meet each other at the altar.. .
Sadly.. . most of the people nowadays are going for the second best.. .
They think of it as costly so they opt to just live together.. . have a kid.. then kids.. .
for me, that's more costly.. . and it will ruin your future as well.. .
I don't believe in the fact that "we love each other so we opted to live together.. ."
If you love that person, you'll be more than determined to present her to the whole world, wearing her traje de boda.. . and you as a groom, waiting for her at the altar.. . you will wait.. .
besides, love is PATIENT.. . (patience means long-suffering.. .not in the context of suffering negatively.. .but suffering because you're not feeding your earthly appetite just to wait for that special day God has set before the both of you.. . )
^^, just a thought
just thinking out loud.. .
Marriage will not be that pricey if not for a purpose.. . ^^
Just my thoughts.. .
First, only established people could afford it.. .haha! Since it costs a lot.. . people who are in the "stable" stage (with a stable job) could pass through it.. .
Secondly, determined people could pass through it.. . ^^, If you're determined to meet your partner at the altar, you won't settle for second best.. . you will give him/her the best.. . and do your best for you to be stable so you could meet each other at the altar.. .
Sadly.. . most of the people nowadays are going for the second best.. .
They think of it as costly so they opt to just live together.. . have a kid.. then kids.. .
for me, that's more costly.. . and it will ruin your future as well.. .
I don't believe in the fact that "we love each other so we opted to live together.. ."
If you love that person, you'll be more than determined to present her to the whole world, wearing her traje de boda.. . and you as a groom, waiting for her at the altar.. . you will wait.. .
besides, love is PATIENT.. . (patience means long-suffering.. .not in the context of suffering negatively.. .but suffering because you're not feeding your earthly appetite just to wait for that special day God has set before the both of you.. . )
^^, just a thought
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