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suitable partner

before i continue to post my message.. heheheheh.. i just want to warn the ones reading this that while i'm blogging this post, i'm not in the mood for looking for a partner, especially for a future partner.. heheheheh.. neither am i in the "how-my-partner-would-look-like-mode" hehehehehe... it's just that this is it... hmmmm.. i don't know with Him.. =)


... but for Adam, no suitable helper was found. 21So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. 22Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. _Genesis 2:21-22

Cool! isn't it.. the very reason that God created Eve because He can't find any suitable helper for Adam.. not just a helper.. but a suitable helper... so God created the woman for man to have a suitable helper.. well... hmmmmm....

helper.. before, i'm really struggling with this one.. i told a friend of mine that God didn't create women to just clean up, wash the dishes, take care of everything in the house... hmmmm.... and one friend of mine always tells me that we gurls ought to submit.. really.. and most of the time, we're sorta quarreling, but not that much, when it comes to some chores.. o diba?! kase parang ang panget pakinggan!!! abah! hindi lang un ang kayang gawin ng mga babae noh!
hmmm.. so i prayed... i know that wives ought to submit to their husbands... and that should be practiced right now.. with the help of our brothers in Christ.. kaya lang... -sigh- minsan sa kin, ang hirap.. kase feeling ko minamaliit nila ung kakayahan naming mga gurls!!!! but then... the very reason that God created a woman is to become a helper... a suitable helper.. sweet.. helper na kinuha mismo sa ribs ng lalake!!! ang kewl ni Lord noh... 'coz He wants intimacy...a man and a woman are destined to be one.. not one man, a lot of women, nor vice versa.. a lady belongs to a man only.. same with me.. i belong to a man.. =) hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... and upon realizing this... it became a sweet thing to me..

hmmmm... well, why did God commanded that we, women, must submit... [i'm still single that's why i don't want to use the word wife.. ;-)] hmmmmmmmm... Eve was deceived by the serpent, and gave in to what the serpent suggested... she saw that it was good.. she didn't even ask the man... and ito namang lalake, kumain din.. hehehehehehehehe.. [but of course, no one should be blamed kase maganda naman ang kinalabasan... ] goin back.. un nga...she saw that it was good.. hindi naman parang tinanggalan ni Lord ung mga babae ng right to decide kaya may command to submit... but God knew that it would be better if, guys will take the lead... besides, He created man to rule! [Genesis 1:26] =)

see... we all have our purposes in life.. there's a reason why God created each and every one... hmmmm... well... malay ko ba ba't ganto ang sinasabi ni Lord sa kin ngayon... i don't know why.. i don't know how... but then, LOrd... i want to focus on You alone.. i don't want to conclude or whatsoever... it's like this, i will only believe that that guy is for me, when i hear You say that "Mhe, si ______ ung God's will mo.. " okei po?! hehehehehhe... basta dapat maririnig ko.. hehehehhe..

besides, it will take me years to enter into a relationship.. haaaaaaaaaaaaayy.. if only i can share what happened to me.. hehehehhehehehehhe.. but i don't want to lose focus because of that! hooh! Lord! thanks!



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